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Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Frank Castle, Jan 5, 2021.

  1. Aaron Baker

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    Comparing Soldiers and oil rig workers to supermarket staff, bus drivers and nurses is possibly one of the most flawed bits of logic I've ever heard.

    I hate the thought of kids missing out on their proper education for this length of time, it's awful.

    But suggesting that they spend a year away from their mum because she stacks shelves in the local co-op is a much quicker route to the disintegration of society.
     
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    Again kids have to deal with that ALL THE TIME. If its that damaging then I guess we had better scarp military tours longer than a week then

    Why is it flawed? How is a soldier being away from their family for anywhere from 6months to FOUR YEARS any less damaging than a few months of a nurse? We are in a crisis here that's going to have a massive impact for decades, so people have to make tough decisions which sadly it seems they are largely found with others making sacrifices but when it might impact them its hell no.

    It's a couple of months of hardship for the good of the nation. If people aren't willing to do that then fine but then these kids should be having to sit their exams as normal and future years shouldn't be having it dumbed down. if they want to pass then its on the kids, parents and teachers to make sure they maximise their potential. You can't have it both ways though of people no making a sacrifice and then expect kids to be given qualifications they don't deserve
     
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  3. Aaron Baker

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    Because soldiers and oil rig workers go in to that line of working knowing what it entails and build their family units around that. They also make up a relatively small proportion of the population.

    People who collect our bins and drive our taxis don't do that sort of role thinking it will cause them to be isolated from their kids. Can't just expect 15% of the adult population to go home to their other halves and tell them that they're off to live in a de facto commune with all their colleagues for 6 months and expect that to go well. The long term and wide spread damage to family relationships will be even higher than kids missing proper schooling.
     
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    Spot on
     
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    It's bizarre because I'm a single parent. Should I get my kids fostered for a few months or am I excluded due to my relationship status?

    Oh and that time in school for kids you mentioned, the time they will NEVER get back? They can, through re-sits or repeating years. No it's not ideal but it's not necessarily life changing.

    And what about my time, with my kids, watching them grow up and being there for them every step of the way? That's the most precious time in the world to me and I'll NEVER get that back.
     
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    First of all I doubt the 15% figure. We aren’t talking about everyone who are key workers having to do this. It’s those whose jobs have contact with others and who live in a household with kids or other people doing key work in another industry. A Bin man for example has no customer contact and their job can practice social distancing. There are a massive amount of people who fall into the key worker group who are the same boat whose risk of cross contamination is very low.

    And again it’s either something like this or we have to accept that kids for the next decade will be stupider than those before and those after. We can’t not do something about that and then effective lie to the kids by having teachers who can’t be trusted with predicated grades decide what to give them or for dumbed down exams to be given to them. That’s just not fair on other generations. Kids either have to go to school or if parents aren’t willing to make the sacrifices to make that viable it’s the duty of the parents, the kids and the teachers to ensure they get the level of education they would have otherwise and take the same level of exams they would have anyway.
     
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    There will always be some situations where there are problems, you can’t have one size fits all and it would need need some alternative things put in place for outliers but what we have now is key workers kids getting a better education than non-key workers kids while these same key workers and their kids are in a lockdown the most likely to get it and spread it amongst themselves to a major impact.

    And the thing is if what was being talked about was kids all doing an extra year at school or even perhaps something like intensive summer schools to catch up that would be fine but we aren’t. Teachers aren’t willing to do upto an extra 6 weeks a year of work and it doesn’t seem anyone wants their kids to be held back a year. All that’s being talked about is letting teacher decide grades despite the fact 60% of predicted grades have historically been wrong (and with no exams to keep them in check they can inflate them further to make them and the school look better) and then after that dumbed down exams.

    And fine watching your kids grown up may be important to you but do you not think it’s important to people in industries which require them to be away for weeks, months or years at a time? It’s a few months sacrifice for benefit of the masses. A sacrifice has to be made somewhere but it largely seems key workers are the ones least willing to so. We have things like hospital workers throwing parties for their kid who is too young to really even know what’s going on which involves having several different bubbles in their home, including those old enough to be at serious risk and other hospital workers who are off work supposedly in isolation having people around (friends, family and even workmen) while supposed isolating and also going out for the day.
     
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    Okay 10% - it's still 5 million people that are supposed to get agreement from their other halves to leave them with the kids and live with their colleagues in a hotel for 6 months because they happen to work in a certain industry that we a society need. And every one is just going to accept this? "oh yes darling, I'll work from home and look after the kids, enjoy yourself in the hotel, see you in 6 months, say hello to your flirtatious boss for me"

    You're taking one problem - issues with schooling - and making it worse by the solution - separating kids from their parents and potentially causing the breakdown of the family unit.
     
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    @SimonW@SimonW I probably wasn't far off with the numbers.

    https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/earningsandworkinghours/articles/coronavirusandkeyworkersintheuk/2020-05-15

    • In 2019, 10.6 million of those employed (33% of the total workforce) were in key worker occupations and industries.
    • The largest group of those employed in key worker occupations worked in health and social care (31%)
    • 31% of key workers have children aged between 5 and 15 years; 16% have children aged 4 years or under.
    • Of all households with dependent children (under 16 years), 6% were key workers and lone parents; 9% were households where both members of the couple were key workers.
     
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    Ignore him, what he thinks other people should do doesn’t effect him, as he’s mentioned before, his job entails something that requires him to not leave the house. Something to do with computers and collecting donations from forums, or something like that. Whilst the key worker bloke that delivers his computer parts should be expected to stay away from his family.
     
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    For the record I’ve had to turn down work because I couldn’t justify jumping on a plane to leave to country for a month to somewhere having bigger issues with it than we are and then coming back so don’t act like I've not been impacted. I did that as I didn’t want to have to be responsible for killing someone to do a job that was in no way essential (no-one needs to play a video game which is the industry the job in question was in and which they were insisting all employees were on site)

    And where have I said delivery people should stay away from their family, I’ve expressly stated that I’m talking about those whose jobs require DIRECT contact with others in ways that make social distancing almost impossible. A delivery guy needs no real contact with anyone during their process of work
     
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    I'm classed as a 'critical worker' and would have no issues checking into Rudding Park for a few weeks, if it was open and they hadn't closed of any of the spa area. I’d let the jacuzzi bubbles ease away my feelings of sadness and guilt at not been able to see my wife and kids - safe in the knowledge that I’m doing the right thing. Maybe FaceTime them after a 3 course room service dinner with a nice bottle of red wine.
    :rolleyes:
     
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    That's through their own choice about the career they opted for. It's not being forced on them which is a completely different situation and the two can't be compared.

    I'm absolutely positive now that you don't have children or you wouldn't even be suggesting such an unworkable and nonsensical step. I think you live on your own, or even still with parents and are just a bit p1ssed off that the whole pandemic has gone on so long and annoyed at others that you believe are impacting your own leisure time.
     
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    Absolutely bang on but for the sake of the debate and to not look completely heartless I'm pretending that I sometimes like my kids :joy::joy:
     
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    :joy:It’s all about the pretense.
     
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    It doesn't matter if they choose that career. How does them choosing that job make it any better on the kids? If they can do it repeatedly and over multiple years without it being deemed irreversibly damaging on the kids then a compromise being made by others over a few months isn't going to do a great deal of harm.

    And before you say unworkable perhaps tell that to certain key workers in other countries such as medical workers in the US where they did just what I have suggested.

    And I've said its a pretty extreme measure BUT what we have right now is those who aren't key workers having their kids get an inferior education to the key workers kids while the key workers and their kids are all mixing with each other meaning you have a major issue with all the key worker groups cross-contaminating each other. I mean you have a nurse who picks it up in the hospital, they bring it home and infect their kids who then go off to different schools and infect their classmates and teachers who then all go home and infect their families who then take it to their schools and workplaces etc etc. During a lockdown its certain types of key worker who stand by far the greatest chance of getting it but there are no 'firebreaks' in place to stop its sweeping through the whole of the keyworker groups when you could have many of the key worker groups.

    And yes I don't have kids but I would like to think if I did I would put them before my own selfish desire to see them. Be that by isolating myself if I was a key worker so they can go to school OR by being open to having all kids 13+ repeat a year and those u13 doing extra classes over the holiday break so by the time they get to 13 they have caught up, all while also taking time out of my day to make sure they are being productive while off school due to lockdown so they are learning something not just dossing around. I certainly wouldn't want them getting qualifications they don't deserve just because their teacher wants to mark 60% of the class up just to make them look better at their jobs or by dumbing exams down as that doesn't help them.

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    And stop making out I'm being selfish, do I like having the choice to go out and do lesuire things taken away from me? hell no. Do I like not being free to go and see family and friends? Again hell no. But I can accept doing what is right for the country as was whole. It's not the length of the pandemic that annoys me, I had accepted that we may be looking at 2 to 3 years before we had a vaccine so it's on track for things to be better well before I expected. What annoys me is the hypocrisy. Parents don't want their kids at school but also don't want to take time out of their day to teach them. They also aren't exactly crying out for their kids to be held back a year like you suggested or for younger age groups where they have more time to catch up for them to goto 'Summer school' in the holidays. No the solution they and the teachers want is to let the teachers decide grades (who again are totally clueless as shown by the difference in predicted grades and actual grades each year and with no checks and balances is open for abuse to make teachers/school look better) and for later exams to be dumbed down.

    Many of these key workers are also the biggest rule breakers when it comes to restrictions. Want to have a party as a key worker? hey that's fine I'm special. Want to go out on a day trip while you are supposed to be in 14-day self-isolation? That's fine, who cares if you infect others. During the first lockdown, I had SEVEN police officers standing outside mine all standing in a circle who were way closer than 2 metres who were just waiting to jump into action anyone walked, cycled or drove past to lecture them on social distancing and what was deemed essential travel.
     
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    First of all, of course it matters if they choose that career or not. If you choose to be in the military for example I'm fairly sure some part of it is because you would like to travel in your career. At the very least you should expect that. Although I'm not sure where I've suggested it was "irreversibly damaging". That's just you making up stuff. All family situations are different and the majority of parents make it work whatever the situation.

    Secondly, I'm not sure what's selfish about embracing family life. Perhaps you should find a nice lady yourself and have kids. You might be a little less angry at the world.

    Probably not because most of the time they are little b***ards but its worth a try.

    Oh and women, they do your head in too.

    In fact, thinking about it. Don't ever meet a bird and don't ever have kids. You'll be much happier in the long run. :joy::joy::joy:
     
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    A lot more people seem to be identifying themselves as key workers this time. I know a few that have, who are not on the official list and have managed to get their children into school.
     
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    The Primary school round the corner from me had 20 children in during lockdown 1, this time round there’s 120+, the headteacher was on Twitter asking parents to reconsider, and if necessary he’ll be asking for proof.

    But, you’ve got to feel sorry for some parents. Take my work for example, and I very much doubt we’re an isolated case, during the first we wave we were down to absolute bare minimum staff. This time round we’ve not furloughed anybody yet, but that could change, but even then you can be recalled after one day with 24 hours notice. The dynamics are very different this time around.
     
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    Maybe a lot of the parents have changed jobs over the last 9 months? ;)
     
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